Jonathan admits that toward the end of his marriage, he explored his sexuality with other men. Was Terry more upset by the fact that Jonathan was gay or the fact that he was cheating on her? "Probably both," Terry says. "All I knew was that I didn't know what he was doing without my knowledge."

Terry feels Jonathan made excuses instead of accepting his homosexuality. "I think that in my heart I believe that you've known all your life that you had feelings towards men," she tells her ex-husband. "But you never have 'fessed up and said you had those feelings. I know you have had those feelings. Everybody has had those feelings. … and maybe you just didn't address it."

But after Jonathan came out to Terry, she told him not to be ashamed of his sexual orientation—and that she knew how painful his admission must have been. "I have the utmost respect for any person who loves anybody," she explains. "And I don't have a problem with gay men."